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A college kid's opinion...
Best deep look at why the emperor has no clothes

"Buy mine instead." --John KeelFive of the articles included in this anthology just plain made me mad! That's why I gave it 5 stars. How many books can do that these days? There are about 85 pieces in the book, most originally printed in tEM (although there is an entire virtual issue included) with something for everyone. (And very likely at least one that will make you mad!)
The intellectual level of the discussion in the Excluded Middle is a lot higher than that found in other 'zines covering the conspiracy/UFO/weirdness communities. The anthology is definitely worth the purchase price, just as the magazine is worth seeking out. (It is unfortunately hard to get.) If you've never seen the magazine, get the book and see what you've been missing.
...and you gotta love any book edited while listening to both Captain Beefheart and The Who.
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Food for thought
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Excellent Training Tool
Excellent for beginners & advanced who need a training plan.
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great story
Amazing! I couldn't put it down!
Excellent sleuthing and good memory needed.

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Significant Spirituality
Inspirational!!

impossible to forgetAfter the first page the book becomes repetitive, and after 20 pages you want to scream. But there is so much subversive intelligence and humor to the ravings of this self-loating old man, that you can't put this book down. Part of the success of the work undoubtedly is how closely it describes real people, the blowhards that were part of Bernhard's circle in contemporary Vienna. He is unsparing of them, and the narrative of the book is driven by Bernhard's petty and loving appreciation of the failures of artistic aspiration.
One of Bernhard's best booksBasically, the book consists of two parts. In the first part, the narrator sits in a chair and watches his hosts plus their other guests waiting for an actor to have dinner. The narrator had bumped into his hosts whom he hadn't seen for many years and they had invited him to join their dinner. A mutual friend of them had just committed suicide so he had felt obliged to join them - much to his regret. The second part describes the actual dinner. However, most of the book consists of what the narrator is thinking about his former friends, about friendships in general and about relationships between people. This nearly endless rant evolves around every possible aspect and like a surgeon Bernhard cuts deep into what everybody takes for granted and lays open treachery, lies, and hypocrisy (If you believe in family values and in a good world, this book might disturb you quite a bit!). As I mentioned before, old friends of Bernhard's sued him when the book was published because it was too obvious he was actually referring to them - and he was showing them in a way nobody would possibly want to be shown. This is not to say that Bernhard is necessarily a misanthrop. Quite surprisingly, when the narrator leaves the dinner table abruptly, he runs back home "through Vienna the city I loved like no other city" - quite a surprise after his Vienna-bashing. To me, Thomas Bernhard always was a deeply disturbed person who hated the world because it wasn't as nice as he wanted to believe it was.
Excellent introduction to Bernhard

A beautiful, soulful read.Tom's book gets to the heart of whatever it is within us that blocks or prevents us from making real, substantive and sustainable progress toward our goals. It goes deeper than the countless lifeless self-help books that leave you feeling empty or that start with good ideas but end up only cheerleading the disempowered. It cuts through the lies we tell ourselves, and the excuses or defenses we often give others, and empowers us to face the real truth by causing us to ask, "What is my true motivation--and what do I have to be afraid of by making that truth known?"
Probably the most helpful thing about this book is that it helps us handle life's ironies, paradoxes, and contradictions more creatively as we explore hidden beliefs and assumptions that often lock up our creativity and quietly sabotage our relationships and personal effectiveness.
For example, for many years my wife and I were stifled by either/or thinking. We either agreed or we didn't, and each of us was either right or wrong--which seems to make all the sense in the world, right? We both wanted the best for our marriage, but despite our best intentions things only seemed to get worse with us. It seemed that if we didn't agree 100 percent, we would ultimately have to see this play out in the real world, and someone would be disappointed and possibly resentful as a natural consequence. Also, we wondered why we couldn't simply "grow up" and allow differences of opinion to exist--and why we could never both be right, but for different reasons. The result was that whoever "won" an argument by strength of logic or manipulation (pouting or complaining) had the luxury of getting his or her way. Not until much later did we realize how damaging this had been to our relationship. After all, the person that didn't get his or her way seemed to resent it for months, feeling victimized or cheated, while the other person would soon forget about the whole thing and ask months later, "What's your problem?"--creating a whole new and ugly debate about something that seemed to be "resolved."
Tom's technique of "holding the tension"--one of the many powerful ideas in this book--offers a new perspective. Neither person is "right" or "wrong," "smart" or "stupid." Instead, the ideas of both sides are valued, even if they are apparently contradictory. It requires both people to listen more carefully--not only to what the other person is saying, but also to what hidden assumptions and beliefs lie buried in your own soul that might be uncovered as you listen. It requires each side to admit that their own motivations are not always squeeky clean, either, before judging the other person. Often, these silent motivators are hidden even to ourselves, and only through our reactions and responses to others can we glimpse them in action.
Consequently, by using some of these ideas, my wife and I have slowly improved our ability to communicate--to remain in difficult dialog without storming off, to express our strong opinions without being called out, to see an accusation or complaint as a call of the soul rather than a call to arms, and to find alternatives that demand neither compromises or battles. It has given us tools that have allowed us to increase measurably in personal effectiveness and consciousness, as well as in our maturity and relationship with each other.
Very deep, thoughtful and enlightening!
THE book for people STILL striving to be effective

Intellectual roller-coaster with a bang.He begins to suspect the retiring architect does not treat his female companion with as much respect as she deserves. He retreats into his home for a time, trying to get away from the world, in a fit of general agitation and anxiety, but eventually returns to his friends' company, and deepens his friendship with the Persian woman, who seems to be growing apart from her companion. The novel ends with an emotional shock, summarizing the story's happenings, and explaining it in highly dramatic terms.
This novel is unequivocally brilliant. Thomas Bernhard (1931-1989) does not employ a style easy to understand at first, but it is worth every ounce of energy invested. For example, he has written this short novel with no paragraph breaks whatsoever. (The book is 135 pages long, but the type is larger than usual and the pages shorter than usual.)
Bernhard writes in an overflowing, fulsome style, not unlike Samuel Beckett, full of language, full of description, incessant, and captivating. This is exactly his strategy: he is trying to capture the reader by forcing them to expend so much energy following his text, his narrative, his story, and his unusual style, that the final words of the story will hit the reader like a ton of bricks. This is Bernhard's signature, and this novel is a fantastic example.
Any reader should try this novel who is interested in an inventive, experimental novel, but one which does not veer too far from normal story-telling. Berhard's novels, for all their roller-coaster style, are actually quite conventional, and "Yes" is a great introduction to his literary work. His vocabulary is sharp, his characters are well spun, his occasional insights are spectacular, and his stories are intruiguing. This novel is highly recommended for anyone wishing to sharpen their mind, find a new adventure after having enjoyed Beckett's works, or introduce themself to one of the finest writers of the 20th century.
YES TO DARKNESSThis is a great novel. I have never seen the mindset of isolation and the depression that follows better portrayed. The style of the piece lends itself to a breathless reading. You don't notice that periods are scarce after a while. It has an exquisite flow to it. All the characters are nicely done. The translation is excellent. I really have nothing negative to say about it.
Minor Key

Informative and easy-to-read
Not for home builders only
Very Valuable Advice
Tom Reilly's Value-Added Selling is an extremely refreshing book to read because it focuses on and responds to the real challenges that sales organizations are forced to face today regardless of the size of the company or the product being sold to the customer.
Value-Added Selling has given my sales team & myself more energy & confidence to stay focused on selling value ( & not just price ) while competing in the chemical commodities industry!!